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Anonymous: are you a aka? where did you pledge? :D

yes. I crossed last Fall at Jacksonville State.

stevenrosas:

What ingredients do you need to make a good relationship is a question I get often. People always think there needs to be an elaborate way of making a good relationship healthy, but really all you need is effort from two people who are dedicated and comitted to making their love work. Here’s a list of things that make a good/healthy relationship.
Love - Love is that which holds everything together. It is the basic ingredient. Love is the reason why you are making the effort of bringing in the other ingredients. Love is that thing that holds you a little longer, that keeps your faith stronger. It’s there to remind you of why you fell for that person in the first place.
Romance - There is a very good saying for men in relationships, if you want your woman to be your princess forever, be her prince forever. That means, the couple needs to keep the romance and the charm alive. You have to every once and a while be romantic, and keep that spark alive, keep the flame burning.
Passion - Passion is a very important trait to have in a relationship, you need to want your partner, and hold them and kiss them but remembering that passion is more than the sex is important as well. There should be a longing in the couple for each other. It is passion that makes each touch, each kiss, each blink of the eye mean a lot more than that which meets the eye you know?
Empathy - You need to have a basic know how about the other person. How they think, how they react and how they behave. It is this empathy that makes a couple manage being with each other for a long time. It is this empathy that helps a couple do those small small things that make the other person happy.
Understanding/Acceptance - Understanding and acceptance go hand in hand. In a relationship, it is important to understand the other person. Why they did what they did? It is the understanding that overlooks the jealousy. More so, acceptance is required in a relationship. If you cannot accept the person for what they truly are, then the relationship will be a farce. A good relationship is made by two people who understand each other and accept each other with the flaws.
Friendship - Friendship is that ingredient which adds the magic to the relationship. If two people can be lovers and friends at the same time, they have a complete relationship. Friendship allows the two to laugh together at their silliness, yell at each other for the mistakes and cry with each other for the losses. How complete do you feel in company of a friend? That is the feeling that you will have with a partner, if you both share friendship in your relationship as well. <3

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talked to my Ex last night we fought … again.

Which is highly unusual for us it seem like ever since we broke up thats all we do anymore.

i’m scared.

He doesn’t love many anymore he used the terms “friends” and “like ” far too often…

I’ve been hurt alot by alot of ppl.

I don’t want him to become one of those ppl.

I love him.

and if you read this love… I believe in you and i see so much in you. All those things i told you before i mean even more.